How does one succeed in life?
12.06.2025 10:47
Hangs out with loser friends.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Why am I so afraid that gun owners have set traps to kill me outside my house or my car?
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Making more friends is a goal.
I want to touch my sister’s boobs. What do I say?
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
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If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Why are men today so pussiefied?
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
What I need from you?
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Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Does not procrastinate.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
When a narcissist mad at their new supply, do they take it out on the old supply?
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
That's it for today.
What habits do happy couples have?
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
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Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Ask yourself:
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
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Losing 20kg is a goal.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Procrastinates a lot.